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Catch A Cheating Spouse Baltimore MD
Catch A Cheating Spouse Baltimore MD
CHEATING. ADULTERY. INFIDELITY.
No matter how you say it, no matter which word you choose, it’s never pretty. For many of you that have found your way to our website, just reading these words have probably caused deep rooted emotions to stir and make their way to the surface. A cheating spouse or partner may be enjoying the excitement of an extramartial affair, but undoubtedly the one being cheated on is enduring some of the darkest moments of life.
Many of you reading this webpage are plagued with suspicions that infidelity is occurring in your marriage or relationship. And, if you’re like most folks we’ve worked with, it’s plagued your mind day in and day out. Peace is a rarity as you question everything and deal with the emotional chaos that adultery always wreaks. Always.
Before I go any further in sharing my thoughts on this blog entry, let me begin by offering my heartfelt apologies for what you are going through. Having investigated countless infidelity cases over the past 20+ years, and having interviewed numerous clients, I understand the emotional turmoil and difficulty of your situation. It’s always a devastating and ugly situation and it never gets easier for me as I hear a new account of raw heartache and witness the tears.
As you know full well, infidelity strikes at the foundation, the very core, of a relationship – trust. This is precisely why the unfaithfulness of a cheating spouse inflicts such pain. The cheating spouse wields a cold, selfish blade that not only slices through the heart, but also decimates the security and trust that are essential to any relationship. Its ripple effects carry on well past the marriage relationship itself, spreading its damage to anyone in close proximity to the marriage – children, extended family members, friends, etc. -and holds the power to negatively affect every single relationship that will ever exist in the future.
THE SPECTRUM OF DISCOVERY
The circumstances surrounding each case are unique and understandably, there are different stages of dealing with the discovery of an affair. There are typically four stages of thought that people seem to progress through as they deal with the emotions, confront the issues, and/or find some other way to wade through the mess and heartache caused by a cheating spouse.
COULD MY SPOUSE BE CHEATING?
For many, there isn’t concrete proof just yet. But, there is a nagging, pestering feeling that something just isn’t right within the marriage or relationship. Something is amiss. You can’t quite put your finger on what exactly, but your busy mind is proposing several different possibilities. And, they all seem to center around adultery.
We’ve included a video here regarding some common red flags of infidelity. Perhaps these are some of the behaviors or feelings you’ve been picking up on?
MY SPOUSE IS CHEATING!
For others, knowledge of an affair may already exist. Perhaps you have found text messages from a cheating spouse‘s lover, or you’ve found the itinerary of your spouse’s “business trip”, or you’ve seen bank statements for certain purchases that should have been given to you but weren’t. Whatever the evidence, doubt regarding infidelity is erased, overwhelming sadness and/or disgust has taken its place, and uncertainty about the future has taken up residence.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Many who have certainty of an affair remain unsure of what to do, feeling trapped in the situation, afraid to move on, or both. Maybe you’ve tried to numb the pain, guard your heart, and stick it out for the sake of your children? Or, perhaps you’ve been holding on, hoping that your wayward spouse’s heart would one day return home. Or, maybe you’ve even entertained ideas that you have no option to leave due to reasons such as lack of employment.
I’M GOING TO TAKE ACTION.
If you have found your way to our website, it may be a safe assumption that you are now ready to take action, or at least very seriously considering stepping into this end of the spectrum. Perhaps you have decided that it’s time to seek answers. To silence all the questions. To obtain the evidence you need to position yourself for a better future.
HOW A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR CAN HELP YOU
If this is you, if you’re ready to take action and achieve some resolution to this matter, a private investigator just may be able to help you. Each day, several times a day, private investigators throughout the world receive phone calls and emails from other folks just like you. Folks that are ready to take action and have decided to request an infidelity investigation. The reasons that a private investigator may be called upon to conduct such an investigation are many and include the following:
- To obtain evidence which can be used to confront a cheating spouse. Interestingly, this isn’t always for “sticking it to him/her” or for rubbing the cheating spouse‘s face in the fact that they got caught being naughty (but, let’s be honest – that does happen). Rather, folks often desire evidence of infidelity so that the affair can be brought out in the open, issues worked through, and an effort can be made toward reconciliation.
- To get closure in a relationship. Truthfully, most people know that a spouse is cheating prior to seeing it with their own eyes. It seems that we’re wired with a sixth sense, a gut feeling, that alerts us when something is wrong. However, having physical evidence, such as video or photographic documentation, is often the final straw that people seek which allows a jilted lover to move on and separate mentally, so that they can prepare for a separation physically and legally.
- To obtain a more favorable court settlement. If the faithful spouse can obtain evidence which proves adultery, he or she may receive a more favorable divorce settlement.
There’s no question – private investigators can help in matters of infidelity, regardless of whether your motivation is reconciliation, closure, or divorce. What is important to realize however, is that private investigators are not attorneys. We at Brown, Kaszak, & Associates will never provide legal advice to our clients, nor should any other private investigator out there. However, our investigators are seasoned in conducting confidential and covert investigations while keeping in mind that the case may one day be heard in court for a divorce proceeding. We frequently work with legal counsel, at the request of our clients, and all of our clients can rest assured that any evidence we gather will be lawfully obtained and admissible as evidence in a court of law.
If you are tired of the sleepless nights and want to take action to get the answers you need, call Brown, Kaszak, & Associates. We are licensed by the Maryland State Police and conduct investigations throughout Baltimore County, Harford County, Anne Arundel County, and throughout the entire state of Maryland. Our investigators boast decades of experience and have the know-how to get the information you seek. When you want to catch a cheating spouse Baltimore MD, give the professionals at Brown, Kaszak, & Associates a call! Or, simply contact us using our online contact form.
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Further Reading: Surviving an Affair & Infidelity: 9 Steps for the Betrayed Spouse